Stuck and confused

Ok. It's been a while since I wrote in this, but instead of just updating everyone who reads this on things that have happened since the last time ( which is alot by the way) I will just start with the current situations.

So, I finally did what my dad always told me to do, and I met a frenchman. He's great actually. Sweet and kind and caring. He's 24. Recently, he took a trip up to see his parents and while he was there he went golfing with his old boss, who offered him a job. It's a great job. 8500 bucks a month, and he has no secondary education. So i told him this was his choice, and I would support him no matter what choice he made. That moving there to work, wasn't going to make me leave him. So he made the choice to take the job.

A few days ago he told me that his ex girlfriend is prego with his baby. She's due at the end of september. This doesn't overly bother me cuz I've been in this situation before. I was talking to him yesterday and asking if I was ever going to meet her. And his responce was not anytime soon because she's a mean person and I don't want her hurting you. Reasonable excuse.

I find out this morning that he might be moving her and the baby up with him when he moves at the end of next month.. Which means if we stay together, I'm never going to get the chance to go up and she him because he doesn't want me to meet her yet. So I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place and I would love it if someone could provide me with some insight into this..